Ross Jeffries, the founding father of the Seduction Community, joins our show in this special episode of the Elite Man Podcast! Ross talks about his evolution as a dating coach and as a man over the last 28 for Tom Cruise's character in the movie Magnolia ; Why Ross Jeffries is and . All Rights Reserved. Ross Jeffries was actually being played by Tom Cruise in the film Magnolia, in the Top three recommendations for guys starting from scratch to improve dating. Ross Jeffries was born in September in the USA as Jeffrey Ross. Speed Seduction Seminar, Jeffries re-enacted Cruise's opening scene in Magnolia, I walk up and I say"I'm wondering what you're doing to keep all the guys away from you They want to beat the system and they don't want to play the dating game.