A good kisser is a person who kisses exactly like you do. often know what to do —that is, one person's lips always matches the other's. If you're in sync with one guy, you can't kiss the same exact way and be in sync with another. _/ sex - love-life/blogs/smitten//08/7-signs-youre-a- good -kisser. It is appropriate to kiss on whatever date you both agree. Your body, your rules; her body, her I am a guy and I always kiss on the first date. And I don't mean a These days, when I date it's specifically to find sexual partners. I typically meet we have sex. I've met some very good friends this way, including my husband. You thought you clicked, but the night didn't end the way you'd hoped for. "I thought to myself, 'If I turn around now to face him, will he kiss me?' A shy date would rather miss out on a good time than risk being turned down. University of Washington, and author of Everything You Know About Love and Sex Is Wrong.